Due to loss of joint family structure, slowly the transfer of traditional wisdom and facts have decreased. Biggest impact is , most of families in Metro and big cities feel that having a single child is a very good step, though most its a decision based on comfort and convenience. Earlier, couple used to have 5 or 6 kids, though it was on higher side, but the bonding among siblings was fantastic. A single child face tremendous emotional challenges, when both parents are working.
Similarly, the cases of divorces are increasing. Its easy to say that horoscope match is old fashioned or superstitious, but due to lack of guidance due to neutral family structure and over dependence on Google for gathering information, most of young people feel , its ok to take own decision. A similar scenario is self medication, today many people feel fine to have self medication.
You can run Windows 10 by hit and trial, No issues, But to get effective results out of it, we need training. Similarly, couples manage marriage life, but there is no shame in accepting the fact that a little guidance would help tremendously. In joint families, there were many issues, but traditional methods of living marriage was very good. You can see the level of satisfaction in old couples, where they stood by each other in all clashes, problems, trauma of life.
When we match a horoscope, we actually match following parameters.
- Comfort level.
- Physical compatibility.
- Genetic mismatch.
- Clashing or Complimentary personality.
- Level of Love making
- Work ethics
- Ego , Anger management Skills
- Basic nature , habits and dislikes.
- Spiritual / religious Inclination
Every marriage has issues, but due to lack of communication ( as most people are not mature and extrovert enough) , couple don’s understand each other. They typically think of it as difference in male , female way of thinking. Its not like that.
If you are aware of likes and dislikes of each other, it becomes easy to manage all small issues.Slowly the comfort level increases and you can work as a team. There can be lack of understanding due different level of emotional IQ.